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原帖由 拾實什習窄炸集 於 19-2-2008 01:57 發表 
actually nothing wrong wieither single or get married.. but it is true you have to think about it seriously if you are over 35 for F or 45 for m.
Brother Ten,
I am also married but I am not yet have any kid. I share your feelings. As a married person and a responsible man who should need to take care his wife, concern and love her. Sometimes you may feel frustrated, especailly both persons are coming from different family and have different lives in growing up, the couple may have different characters but true love between couple could really resolve the much problems. I confess that the big problem is: how a wife/husband to maintain a good relationship with husband's/wife's family members, especially, if these members are living together with the couple.
I also share your view that "LUCKY" is really important in life. However, one must looks postive and tries his best to well-equipped himself in this competitive world. 就像蜀漢後主劉禪, who had been granted the luck from the heaven to be an emperor but he had not worked hard to be a good emperor and so caused the end of 蜀漢.
Though life is suffering as mentioned in Budda, and people always feels frustrated in his life. I still verily believe that people must work hard and wait for the 30% lucky to come. Unluckiy, I am a lazy guy, I only talk to work hard but is lazy to fulfil to work hard.
Finally, I encourge ar_woo brother to work hard to find his true love and get marriage.
